有人在面书上载了一篇文章，题名为＂婚姻不适合你＂。"婚姻不适合你。结婚并不是让自己开心的途径，结婚是为了让对方开心。不仅如此，婚姻不是为自己，结婚是为了一个家庭。家庭并不指是岳父岳母， 而是你未来的孩子们。你想要谁帮你将孩子领导成人？你想要谁成为他们的榜样？ 婚姻不适合你，婚姻不是为自己。婚姻是与你永连天理的人。＂
＂真正的婚姻（爱情）从来不是关于你。真正的婚姻（爱情）是关于你爱的那个人：他\她的希望、他\她的需求、他\她的期望、他\她的梦想。＂读到这里， 你再次浮上我脑海。想起那些一起度过的时间，你所做的一切，是为了让我开心。眼泪不禁流下脸颊。你知道我的希望，我的需求，我的梦想、期望、恐惧。一次又一次，你总是可以让我感到温馨，对我说出我当时想听的话。
至今，我还是很懊恼，懊恼你，更懊恼我自己。懊恼让自己陷入此刻的处境，失去对爱情的信心。对于事业，我是一个充满信心、懂得自己所追求、肯定自己的女人。对于爱情，我是一个迷失方向、充满恐惧感、一感到危机拔腿就跑的小女孩。我已踏出一步在一条没有回头的路，至少这是我的心要去的地方。没有承诺，没有戏剧化，只想有人陪伴。
Read an article which someone shared on facebook titled 'Marriage isn't for you'. "Marriage isn't for you. You don't marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, marriage isn't for yourself, you're marrying for a family. Not just the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn't for you. It's not about you. Marriage is about the person you married."
"A true marriage(and true love) is never about you. It's about the person you love- their wants, their needs, their hopes, and their dreams. " When I read this, you came into my mind again. I started to realized those months, the things that you did, is to make me happy & my tears started flowing. You knew that by wishing me good morning firs thing in the morning made me happy. You knew what I wanted, you knew what I needed, you knew my dreams, my hopes & my fears. Time & again you just never fail to amaze me, things you said was exactly what I needed to hear at that point of time.
Was upset, upset toward you, more so upset towards myself. Upset that I allowed myself to get into the mess that I am in, & ended up getting more than what I bargained for, & fully lost confidence in love. When it comes to career, I am a woman full of confident, sure of myself, aim for the path that I wanted in my life. When it comes to love, I am a lost little girl, full of fear & will run at the first sign of danger. I have taken my first step towards a path where there is no return, at least there is where my heart wants to be for now. No commitment, no drama.. Just to enjoy the company.
＂真正的婚姻（爱情）从来不是关于你。真正的婚姻（爱情）是关于你爱的那个人：他\她的希望、他\她的需求、他\她的期望、他\她的梦想。＂读到这里， 你再次浮上我脑海。想起那些一起度过的时间，你所做的一切，是为了让我开心。眼泪不禁流下脸颊。你知道我的希望，我的需求，我的梦想、期望、恐惧。一次又一次，你总是可以让我感到温馨，对我说出我当时想听的话。
至今，我还是很懊恼，懊恼你，更懊恼我自己。懊恼让自己陷入此刻的处境，失去对爱情的信心。对于事业，我是一个充满信心、懂得自己所追求、肯定自己的女人。对于爱情，我是一个迷失方向、充满恐惧感、一感到危机拔腿就跑的小女孩。我已踏出一步在一条没有回头的路，至少这是我的心要去的地方。没有承诺，没有戏剧化，只想有人陪伴。
Read an article which someone shared on facebook titled 'Marriage isn't for you'. "Marriage isn't for you. You don't marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, marriage isn't for yourself, you're marrying for a family. Not just the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn't for you. It's not about you. Marriage is about the person you married."
"A true marriage(and true love) is never about you. It's about the person you love- their wants, their needs, their hopes, and their dreams. " When I read this, you came into my mind again. I started to realized those months, the things that you did, is to make me happy & my tears started flowing. You knew that by wishing me good morning firs thing in the morning made me happy. You knew what I wanted, you knew what I needed, you knew my dreams, my hopes & my fears. Time & again you just never fail to amaze me, things you said was exactly what I needed to hear at that point of time.
Was upset, upset toward you, more so upset towards myself. Upset that I allowed myself to get into the mess that I am in, & ended up getting more than what I bargained for, & fully lost confidence in love. When it comes to career, I am a woman full of confident, sure of myself, aim for the path that I wanted in my life. When it comes to love, I am a lost little girl, full of fear & will run at the first sign of danger. I have taken my first step towards a path where there is no return, at least there is where my heart wants to be for now. No commitment, no drama.. Just to enjoy the company.
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